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Third Biggest Mistake Couples Make: Shame Kills Sex

This material is adapted from Amy Jo's free telecall, "The 5 Biggest Mistakes Couples Make When It Comes to Sex... and What to Do About It." Read parts 1, 2 The third common mistake couples makes is that they don’t deal with shame. Shame is keeping one or both...

The 9 Steps to Sexual Empowerment

The 9 Steps to Sexual Empowerment

People are often confused by what I mean when I say I work with people to become sexually empowered and that there are steps to sexual empowerment. Sexuality is so vast that when people want to work on their sexual selves they often don't even know where to begin. One...

How Are Sex and Money Connected?

How Are Sex and Money Connected?

This week I sponsored at an event hosted by one of my coaches and since I am beginning to launch some work that connects sex and money, I was asked over and over again, “How exactly are sex and money connected?” I found myself explaining some of the myriad ways they...

How hidden shame impacts sexuality

How hidden shame impacts sexuality

One of the most common things people say they want when it comes to sexuality is to release the shame and guilt they carry about it. Most people are walking around with hidden shame about sex, their bodies, pleasure, their desires, or their attractions and kinks....

Sex is a Skill

Sex is a Skill

Most of us experience fumbly, awkward, unsexy early ventures into the forays of sexual pleasuring with a partner without sex skills. I certainly did. In a culture like ours, where we place so little emphasis on teaching sex education, we are all left to stumble about...

What is Embodied Sexuality?

What is Embodied Sexuality?

I developed a playful new workshop for an event where I taught years ago. I was really inspired about "Embodied Sexuality," and am finding myself asking the question, what does it mean to fully embody my sexuality? For me, it means a lot of things. My embodied...

What Does Sexual Power Actually Mean?

What Does Sexual Power Actually Mean?

Someone once told me that having a women’s weekend called “Sex-Money-Power” sounds masculine. When I probed further, they said “power” is more of a man’s word and that women don’t really relate to it. The idea of power is so often related to someone being...

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