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Here’s the equation: BE + DO = HAVE
I will not lay down. I will not be resigned that “it’s just gonna be like it always is. Nothing will change.” Someone actually posted a comment to that effect this week on a post about the phone banking I have been doing. How do you think the world...
The importance of an opulent sex life
https://youtu.be/lsgm0m-9T2E Inspired by the beautiful landscape of Malibu, I want to talk about creating beauty in your life. A huge component of sexual empowerment is about not feeling guilty about surrounding yourself with the things that make you happy. There is...
How to Plan the Perfect Sexcation
Sometimes you don’t merely need a vacation where you can have fun and relax. You need a sexcation where you take time out of your busy schedule to not only relax. But to unplug and to specifically create lots of time for delicious sexual experiences and adventures. As...
The Good Girl vs. the Authentic Woman
It’s no secret that women are socialized to take care of everyone else. To question ourselves, and to take a back seat in business, money and sex. People teach us to be a "good girl". Where the "good girl" and people pleasing comes from As women, being second-class,...
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THE SECRET TO TALKING OPENLY ABOUT SEX
My path as an educator included earning a Masters in Human Sexuality Education, but you don’t have to go get a graduate degree in human sexuality to learn how to really talk openly about sex.
Anyone who cares about having a fulfilling, meaningful sexual life, anyone who wants to improve their sexual life, start to get the things they really want, can learn the skillsets required to have that.
The problem with sex and sexual issues is that people keep them to themselves for the most part, not wanting to show the vulnerable or tender parts of themselves to the world.
That means you don’t get to see other ways modeled, and it also means that if you are feeling some shame about some aspect of your sexuality or your sexual life that you will grow that shame and you’ll stay steeped in that shame all by yourself…
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The Illusion of Independence
As I wrote last week, my healing process has been really beautiful, made so by my own commitment to it, my planning and my community. But that did not come without effort and a major shift in perspective. I am someone who had to grow up very quickly and was always...
Why “Good Guys Finish Last”
As a sex coach, I’ve been talking to A LOT of amazing, available heterosexual women about what they want in a man over the last several years, and I think it’s high time I talk to you guys about it. I co-wrote Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men nearly 15 years ago to help...
The Cultural Set-Up for Bodily Violation & Non-Autonomy
From the very beginning, we were taught that we do not have rights or control over our own bodies. We are held by many, passed through hands, consoled while we cry, unable to communicate clearly what we need. Many of us may be born with health issues or disabilities...
Roe V Wade: The Heteropatriarchy Strikes Again
This week, there was a leaked Supreme Court opinion, written by Justice Alito, that indicates the Supreme Court will overturnThe Heteropatriarchy Strikes Again after 50 years of our right to safe abortion being the law of the land. Those of us who have fought for...
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Are you having receptacle sex?
Sometimes the sexual milieu is painfully unfulfilling. One thing I’ve heard far too often from women over the last few years is that they are having “duty sex” with their husbands or partners. Receptacle sex. They have sex, not because they want to, but because they...
So You Want a Great Relationship?
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about commitment. Women often come to me because they want the perfect relationship. They want someone to show up for them, to be true, not to stray, to be present and authentic. They want to be fully loved. And they can’t figure out...
How to Plan the Perfect Sexcation
Sometimes you don’t merely need a vacation where you can have fun and relax. You need a sexcation where you take time out of your busy schedule to not only relax. But to unplug and to specifically create lots of time for delicious sexual experiences and adventures. As...
How “Clever Complaining” Blocks Our Abundance
The idea of being abundant and creating abundance is ubiquitous, and yet so many of us have a chronic problem with possibly the biggest abundance blocker there is: Complaining. Complaining sucks the life out of your relationships and...
The Illusion of Independence
As I wrote last week, my healing process has been really beautiful, made so by my own commitment to it, my planning and my community. But that did not come without effort and a major shift in perspective. I am someone who had to grow up very quickly and was always...
Why “Good Guys Finish Last”
As a sex coach, I’ve been talking to A LOT of amazing, available heterosexual women about what they want in a man over the last several years, and I think it’s high time I talk to you guys about it. I co-wrote Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men nearly 15 years ago to help...
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The Personal is Political.
Sexual Culture and the Body Politic.
The Critical Ingredient the Personal Development World Misses
Sex, Money, Power & Justice Go Hand In Hand. Over a decade ago when I started my second and current business, as my 9-year relationship was ending and I was setting out to figure out what it would mean to truly stand on my own two feet again, I started a...
Two Sexual Abuse Operations Have Just Been Exposed
The Tower is falling. Last week two big organizations ostensibly dedicated to sexual evolution and skills building were brought to their knees. There are a lot of fakes–it’s too easy to hang a shingle and call yourself a sex coach, sex educator, tantra practitioner or...
What the USWNT, Black Panther & the 116th Congress have in common [love letter]
On Day One of the 116th Congress, as more women and people of color than ever before poured into the House chambers to do their newly appointed jobs representing the people of The United States, a palpable shift could be felt. Rep. Nancy Pelosi called it “The People’s...
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