Pleasure and orgasm get talked about as if they are extraneous, indulgent and as something we should downplay. Yet they are our birthright, and necessary to live in this mad world.
I hear so many questions about orgasm.
Have I had one? I’m unsure. We are unsure because we’ve been watching too much Hollywood or porn, and we are in a constant false comparison about our sexuality, our orgasm, our expression.
And women think they need to follow the sexuality of men, and most do because that is how we are socialized.
Imagine if we could let all of those things go.
Pleasure and orgasm get talked about as something we should downplay. Yet they are our birthright, and necessary to live in this mad world.
Most people are holding back, from receiving pleasure, and going to the depths because they are afraid: to take too long, to be too much, to want too much, to be judged for their desires.
Why doesn’t my pleasure look like that person’s does?
Our sexuality, desire and pleasure can look really different.
If we want to be in our true authentic pleasure, we have to free ourselves from the constraints that tell us our ecstasy has to look a certain way or like someone else.
We were given a phenomenal body capable of ecstatic pleasure and we are meant to experience it and enjoy it.
Yet most people are holding back, stopping themselves from feeling too much, from receiving pleasure, and going to the depths because they are afraid: to take too long, to be too much, to want to much, to be judged for their desires, to be fully seen, heard and met, to be boldly unembarrassed about their pleasure and desire.
